The complexity of Love

 Love as a concept is difficult. We don't know why love occur and why it is occur towards some people and not towards all. But if we go inside of love, it may be simple. If we love someone, there is no absolutely no reason for that. One can't explain in words why they love someone. They just love them. Similarly, if some one is not loving you, they are not loving you that's it. There may not be reason for not loving as there was non for love. You can't make them fall in love with you simply because you are loving them enough. Love is always two way course, if someone is loving you back, it is brilliant. But if someone is not loving you back, let it be. You can't change their heart by your love. So, don't beg for someone's love. Remember, they also want someone to be in their life, so it is not that only you are gaining if they accept your proposal. It is equal business. If you want someone ask them out, and if they accept brilliant and if they don't, then let it be and move on. You will find someone who will love you for who you are. Then you will see, you don't have put much effort to make it work. Love will only work, if both the party want it to work.

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